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Relationship Fortification:

A simple framework for having honest conversations to help your relationship soar.

All it takes is an hour, once every two weeks.

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What's this about?

Romantic relationships have the potential to deeply enrich our lives. They can be a source of joy, companionship, comfort, security, support, adventure, and so much more.  

But whenever you bring two individual lives together, challenges are inevitable.  Everyone has different upbringings, experiences, traumas, etc.

 

Stuff comes up. 

Relationship fortification provides a versatile structure for working through any kinds of challenges in your relationship.

The Process

Fortification can help address just about anything

Communication

Jealousy

Family Dynamics

Sex

Pet Peeves

Parenting

Finances

Division of Labor

And More

Fortification can help address just about anything

Communication

Does it work?

We've used this framework for years, shared with friends & family, and run large-scale workshops.
We also ran an informal pilot test, where couples experimented with fortification for 2 months.

Here's what people said after trying.
Names altered for confidentiality

“If there was only one tool I could use to work on my relationship, this would be it."

Ishmael C. 

-Hoboken, NJ

"We recognized and went deeper into what triggers us, to avoid further escalation. We started to understand how can we see the problem objectively."

Malika U.

-Brooklyn, NY

"The fact that I thought mindfully about how to share my observations and thoughts prior to the session...made me feel more comfortable and confident not to hurt my partner by using the right words"

Persephone M.

-Mountain View, CA  

How is your relationship right now? 

No matter how long you've been together, or how things are going, fortification has something to offer.

STELLAR

Our relationship is one of the strongest that we've seen →

Fortification helps:

SUSTAIN

Keep the magic alive and preempt challenges

SOLID

It's good: we have some challenges, but nothing out-of-the-ordinary →

Fortification helps:

OPTIMIZE

Make adjustments and improvements to go from "good" to "great"

STRUGGLING

We have significant challenges that aren't improving. Our relationship is often a source of stress →

Fortification helps:

REBUILD

Address longstanding difficulties, identify the path forward, and work toward it together

The best part?
It's free.

You might be wondering: "what's the catch?" There isn't one.

Relationship fortification has helped us and our loved ones a lot. We simply want to share, hoping it offers as much value to you as it has to us.

We're working on a short manual that you'll be able to buy soon, but it's not essential. This site covers everything you need to give fortification a try. Subscribe to our mailing list and we'll notify you as soon as the manual is available!

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Ready to try? 

Click below to learn everything you need to try relationship fortification. 

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By the way:
Who are you? 

Our names are Nick & Lamees! We're a happily married couple living in New York City.

We've been using fortification for years to craft our ideal relationship. You can read more about us, our story, and the history of fortification on the about page. 

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